In my many, many attempts to stay healthy and fit, I have found that there is one thing that is the most important tool that I feel is necessary order to lose weight and stay healthy and fit. It actually has nothing to do with exercise, eating clean or removing any vices. What it is?

It's finding your WHY.
Well what's your WHY...and why is it so important? Good question.
Your WHY is simple, but so vital to your success. It's WHY your are on this journey. WHY you want to get healthier and it is what will keep you going when the going gets tough. If you don't have your why, then you are setting yourself up for failure.
Failure, that's harsh...but it's true. Your WHY will get you through those moments where you want to quit, throw in the towel and give up. Your WHY gives your journey to a healthier life MEANING and DRIVE that will see you to the end. It will also help you STAY on this path. Once you reach your goal your WHY will still be there to keep you on track.
So, how do I find my WHY?
Your WHY will likely come straight to you. It's the first thing on the top of your head as to why you want to live a healthier life. Ready. Set.
Pause. Inhale. Exhale. Ask yourself "why am I starting this journey to a healthier life". Be honest.
Your WHY should make you cry, be something that drives your life, and is SUPER CRAZY important to you. It can change as time passes.
Do you have it? It's okay if it's not right there. If that's the case...ask yourself these questions:
- Why did you start? How does this affect the future you?
- How is it that you want to measure your life?
- What is it that matters deeply to you?
- What inspires you to come alive?
- What will inspire you keep going when you just want to stop?
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My long term WHYs and a "Hi" from Breaker |
I'm going to relate this to healthy living which could go into weight loss or could simply go into treating your body well. Stop and think, when I have a weak moment (which will happen) what will I focus on to get me through that moment. It could be that summer vacation to the beach or fitting into those skinny jeans in the back of your closet. It could be that you want to be able to climb a flight of stairs without losing your breath or reversing your diabetes diagnosis.
Find that why and write it down. Place it somewhere prominent and large.
I strongly believe that this is the first step to a healthier you. It's internal and takes some work but this is what will push you to success. Use this when moments get tough, temptations arise and remember why you started, why you continue.
I have found myself, about to eat those bag of chips (my weakness) or down that drink (yummy jack and diets). Stopped. Took a breath and remembered why I started this process and why if I indulged in this moment it would stop me from becoming that better self.
This is a tool, just as important as any other.
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Find your WHY and go after it! |
Right now, my WHY, what is driving me, is that I want to feel confident in a bikini this summer. It's a short term goal that puts the pressure on me to be good, to not cheat 'this one time'. Its stopping me in indulging in foods that aren't good for me and is helping me stay consistent with my fitness. My long term why is to be healthy for my family and future kids. I hope to set an example for others to follow and inspire people to become healthier. It takes work, but it really is work that is SO well worth.
So, what is your WHY?